The difference between men and women is mind-boggling.
Physically, psychologically, emotionally, etc.
We often hear complaints about men and women not being able to understand each other.
"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus."
The way men and women communicates, the way they love, the way they process information.
Men speaks logic, while women speaks emotions.
Generally men have been instilled with the notion since young that expressing their emotions openly, would show their vulnerability and it may also be seen as a weakness.
Women speaks from a more emotional perspective due to the brain chemistry and social learning. It is alright for a woman to express her emotions openly and not be judged. It is a stereotypical idea that the society creates.
Men's way of dealing with stress, is to temporarily withdraw. They may not necessarily focus on the problem at hand, and take "time-out" to distance themselves from it and relax. It allows them to re-examine the problem later with a fresh perspective.
Women have the natural dynamic that is centered around her ability to give to others. When a women gives of herself, but doesn't receive adequate love and attention in return, her dynamics become unbalanced, and eventually crashing. A woman needs the attention, listening, understand, and reassurance of those around her, as well as self-love.

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